Papa Jack's Words of Wisdom 6 (Tagalog)

you're going to lose the one you claim to love just because you dont know how to listen. -Papa Jack
pag nagtanong kayo sa partner nyo, iparamdam nyo na handa kayong makinig sa sagot. -Papa Jack
Minsan kahit alam mong tama ka, you should still know when to shut up para magkaintindihan kayo. Know how to listen as well. Hindi yung puro ka salita.
Kung may inaantay ka, mararamdaman mong may inaantay ka. - Papa Jack
Bago ka pumasok sa panibagong relasyon, siguraduhin mo munang nakapag-move on ka na. Kasi kung hindi, siguradong gagawin mo lang siyang panakip butas.
Ang lalaki kapag nakipagbreak sa kalagitnaan ng away at sagutan niyo, huwag mo siyang paniniwalaan. Natural lang yun sa mga lalaki, bugso lang ng damdamin. Pero kapag nakipaghiwalay siya ng mahinahon, seryoso na siya dun.
Huwag mong sasabihin na hindi mo kaya at mamamatay ka kapag nawala siya sayo. Tandaan mo, nabuhay ka ng ilang taon na wala siya sa buhay mo, at yun ay noong bago pa lang kayo magkakilala.
you'll get used being number 2, you'll get used for being taken for granted.
Kung mahal ka talaga ng taong mahal mo, matututo syang umiwas sa lahat ng mga bagay na magiging dahilan ng paghihinala mo… It’s really hard to make a relationship work with a crack on its foundation.
Kung hinahayaan mong saktan ka ng iba, every single day, you are losing your self, hanggang sa wala ng matira sa pagkatao mo.
Katangahan ang mag “I Love You” at mahalin ang taong hindi mo pa nakikita.
Hindi lahat ng nagmamahalan ay magkasama. At hindi lahat ng magkasama nagmamahalan

Facebook Friends Status 2 (May 5, 2011)

Ez Rara:
“‘It’s better to marry someone you love second best than the one you love most,’ there are people who say that smugly. Do people really know if the person they’re dating now is someone they love second best? But one thing’s for sure: At the moment when you’re about to lose the person you love the most in life.. You’ll realize that he/she is the one.”
Jam Julius Cardines:
kng naggng TANGA mn ang isng BABAE
wg mo syang HUSGAHAN
wg mo syang SUMBATAN
wg mo syang PAGTATAWANAN
at wg mo syang SISISIHIN

kc HINDI kau ang NAHIHIRAPAN
HINDI kau ang NASASAKTAN
kng alm nya kya kng gaano kasakit at kng gaano ka kahirap mahalin..
tingin mo pipiliin kpa rin niya?

MAGPASALAMAT kna lng
dhil hndi nmn sya masasabihang TANGA
kng MATINONG TAO ang MINAHAL nya
I ♥ PAPA JACK (90.7 Love Radio):
‎-The Basic Rule in Relationships-

Occupy only the Space they give you. If you try to occupy more, more the chances of being thrown out.
I ♥ PAPA JACK (90.7 Love Radio):
‎-Minsan kahit wala kang pagkukulang, iiwan ka parin ng partner mo. Kahit nga sobra sobra na ang ibinigay mo, iiwanan ka parin. Minsan ang mabigat na dahilan ay hindi na sila masaya sa atin. At kailangan nating tanggapin yun.
‎I ♥ PAPA JACK (90.7 Love Radio):
-Bago ka magdesisyon na makipagbreak sa karelasyon mo, ito ang pinakaunang tanong na dapat mong sagutin, "Handa ka ba na makasalubong siya isang araw at makitang may ka-holding hands na iba?". Kung hindi mo kayang makita ang ganung eksena, huwag mong hihiwalayan.
I ♥ PAPA JACK (90.7 Love Radio):
‎-Huwag mong isuko ang isang bagay na alam mong kaya mong ipag-laban...
Mahirap ngang mag-hintay pero mas mahirap mag-sisi kasi alam mong kaya mo pero pinabayaan mo.
Nicka Alquizar:
Kung umiyak ka or napaiyak ka o nagdudusa ka sa isang relasyon na tapos na. Ibig sabihin, nagmahal ka nang tama.

90.7 Love Radio

Facebook Friends Status 1 (May 4, 2011)

JheLyn Baluyot Abejar:
SINGLE is not a status. It is a word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending on others",)))
Omz Cruz:
kahit gaano ka pa kagaling magpayo sa isang relasyon,
magiging bobo ka pa rin kapag ikaw na ang nasa sitwasyon..
Lemuel Garcia:
rejection makes a man stronger...
Ujy Barros:
May mga bagay lang talaga na walang kasiguraduhan sa mundo
Chriztine Rodriguez:
A pencilmaker told d pencils 5 important lessons,1st ,everything u do will always leave a mark.2nd, u can always correct d mistakes u make .3rd ,what is important is whats inside you. 4th, in life u will undergo painful sharpenings which will make u a better pencil. and the most important is, to be the best pencil u can be, u must allow urself to be held and guided by the Hand that holds u
Kim Dela Torre:
never recycle a past relationship because if it didn't work out before what makes you think it would this time.. ♥
Jane Junio:
"Isa lang naman pangarap ko eh…Ang maging pangarap mo"
Julia Sioson:
A person who gives freely without expecting anything in return is THE FACE OF REAL KINDNESS.
Ez Rara:
To have a good friend is the purest of all the gifts of God, for it is love that has no exchange of payment. It is never hereditary, like a family. It is never convincing as a child. And he has no means of physical pleasure, as a companion. It is, therefore, an indescribable bond that brings with it a deeper devotion than all the others
Aileen Perez:
‎"may mga bagay na nakalaan sa tao pag para sayo talaga yun makukuha mo.. kaya wag ka mag alala kung mawala man sya.. di man kayo ngayon baka nakalaan sya sayo sa tamang panahon"

Mr./Ms. Right

do you think he/she is really the one for you???

Love at First Sight


when i first saw you, there's a spark...

do you believe in LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT???? if yes..why? if no..why not?

Papa Jack's Words of Wisdom 4 (Tagalog)

“Kung hindi mo mahal ang pagkatao niyan, hindi mo mahal ‘yan!”
Minsan kapag nag away kayo ng taong mahal mo
Pinapatawad mo agad. Naawa ka kasi agad.
Kasi minsan, kahit ilang beses ka na nya nasaktan papatawarin mo siya dahil MAHAL MO SYA. Pero minsan ba naawa ka sa sarili mo dahil maraming beses ka na niyang sinaktan?
H’wag mong sabihing tanga ka dahiL Lang binasura ka niya…
Baka siya ang tanga dahiL binasura niya ang kaisa-isang taong nagmamahaL sa kanya.
“Di mo gugustuhin na isave ang relationship niyo kung tingin mo sa kanya ay masamang tao,”
“hindi kailangang bilangin ang mga effort na ginagawa mo sa inyong relationship, nagagawa mong mag effort dahil mahal mo yung tao na pinaglalaanan mo ng effort.”
“Hayaan mong mahalin ka niya, sa kung ano ang hugis ng puso mo.
“Wala kang karapatang magreklamo. Ikaw ang pumili ng sitwasyon na ‘yan.”
Bago ka magdesisyon na makipagbreak sa karelasyon mo, ito ang pinakaunang tanong na dapat mong sagutin, "Handa ka ba na makasalubong siya isang araw at makitang may ka-holding hands na iba?". Kung hindi mo kayang makita ang ganung eksena, huwag mong hihiwalayan
Minsan kahit wala kang pagkukulang, iiwan ka parin ng partner mo. Kahit nga sobra sobra na ang ibinigay mo, iiwanan ka parin. Minsan ang mabigat na dahilan ay hindi na sila masaya sa atin. At kailangan nating tanggapin yun.
Sa relasyon dapat may isang siga. Kung sa tingin mo siya yung siga sa relasyon niyo ipaubaya mo na sa kanya. Hindi yung kapag galit siya sasabayan mo na rin yung galit niya.
"Kahit sabihin niya ng sabihin sayo, kung hindi mo naman nararamdaman yun, walang kwenta yun."
"Kaya tayo umiiyak dahil nagmahal tayo ng tama. Umiiyak tayo because we are rebuilding ourselves. We have ways to cope up."

Papa Jack's Words of Wisdom 3 (Tagalog)

Hanggat maari, wag ninyong palalampasin ng 5yrs ang relasyon ninyo ng hindi kayo kinakasal. Bakit? Kasi dadating at dadating talaga sa puntong magkakasawaan na kayo, na-exhaust na ninyo ang lahat ng pwedeng ibigay at ipakita sa partner niyo. So eventually, ang kasal ay magiging obligasyon na lang, for formality.

Kaya nga karamihan sa mga married couples na nag-bf/gf muna ng long-term bago kinasal, ay hindi nagging successful ang marriage compared sa mga short-terms. Mas maganda yung araw araw ay may bago kang nadidiskubre sa partner mo dba? Because love is about discovering something
Mga palatandaan na meron ng iba ang taong mahal mo
Ganito ang mga linya niya pag makikipagbreak na:

you deserve someone better
nasasakal ako sayo
masyado kang selosa
kailangan muna natin ng space
hindi talaga siguro tayo ang para sa isa’t isa
mahal kita pero……
mas ok tayo as friends
Merong mga tao talagang dadaan sa buhay natin para turuan tayong maging matatag
Ang tao, aminado naman yan sa mga kasalanan nila..pero kung lalo mo pang ipapamukha sa kanila na mali sila, lalo mo lang silang binibigyan ng dahilan para iwanan ka..
ung lalayo/iiwas/mang-iiwan ka sabaihin mo
Para alam niya ang reason kung bakit at para hindi siya umiyak na hindi alam ang dahilan. Ang hirap kaya pag hindi mo alam. Hurt others with honesty. That’s the best way to hurt someone.
Atleast once in your life naramdaman mong ikaw ang pinakamahalagang tao sa buhay niya. Mas ok na yun, kaysa naman wala.
“Wag mo pagaksayahan ng oras ang taong hindi ka pinagtutuunan ng pansin. Para ka lang naghahangad na makita mo ang hangin.”
Ang mga lalaki ay di mag e-effort kung di ka gusto!
“pag sobra na ang pain kahit gaano pa ka-wonderful ang taong yan, aayaw ka talaga”
ung iniwan ka ng taong mahal para sa iba, hilingin mo na sana ay maging masaya siya sa pinili niya. Kasi kung magiging malungkot lang siya dun, buti pang hindi ka na lang niya iniwan at pinagtyagaan na lang ang relasyon ninyo, masasayang lang kasi ang mga luha at sakit na naramdaman mo.
“Para sa mga nagmamahal, the best thing to do is surrender yourselves and para naman sa mga pinag handugan ng pagmamahal, pahalagahan niyo naman.”
Walang assurance na magiging kayo forever, pero as long as nararamdaman mo ang saya sa piling niya, hangga't nararamdaman mo ang pagmamahal sa puso mo, wag kang magsayang ng oras. Sabihin mo sa kanya kung gaano mo siya kamahal araw araw.
Sa mga sira ulong lalake na nang-iiwan lang ng hindi nagsasabi. Mahirap umiyak ng hindi mo alam kung ano ang dahilan. Kaya sabihin niyo. Hurt girls with honesty. That's the best way to hurt someone.
Kapag tinanong ka kung mahal ka niya, sumagot ka kaagad. Kasi kahit 3 segundo lang ang lumipas at di ka pa sumasagot, ibig sabihin, hindi mo alan kung mahal ka talaga niya
“‘Pag nanligaw ka, equivalent no’n ay tinatanong mo siya kung pwede siyang maging parte ng buhay mo.”
Ilang beses pa dapat ulit-ulitin sa'yo na hindi na ikaw ang prayoridad niya, hindi na ikaw ang prinsesa niya. Na ang oras na inilalaan niya dati sayo ay hindi na para sayo. Kung binibigyan ka man niya ng oras ngayon, extra time nya lang yun.

Papa Jack's Words of Wisdom 1 (Tagalog)

Walang masama kung ipaglaban mo siya, pero kailangan mong malaman kung hanggang kailan at hanggang saan. Alamin mo kung may patutunguhan ang pakikipaglaban mong ito sa relasyon niyo
Ang pagmamahal ay hindi give and take, ito ay GIVE and GIVE because you don't expect something in return.
Sukatan ba ng pagmamahal ang sobrang pagseselos?
Kung wala siyang naiaambag na saya sa buhay mo, kundi puro iyak at sakit, ano pang ginagawa mo sa relasyon na yan? Wala ng point.
May mga tao talagang dapat natin pakawalan kahit masakit
WALANG DALAWANG STORY ANG MAGKAPAREHAS
minsan, mas kailangan mong mahalin yung taong mahal ka para sumaya ka. kesa sa taong mahal na mahal mo nga, pero di
naman marunong magpahalaga..
kung nakahanap man siya
ng dahilan para IWANAN ka, gumawa ka ng paraan para MAGSISI siya.
kapag nagmahal ka, huwag kang umasa na lahat
masaya.. nandiyan si SELOS, si HINALA at si TUKSO. kapag mahina ka, sila
ang sisira sa relasyon na inaalagaan mo. pero kung MATATAG ka, hindi ka
nila MATITIBAG. ipaglaban mo hangga't kaya mo. pero kapag ang relasyon
ay puro LUHA at LUNGKOT, puro SAKIT at SAMA NG LOOB, BUMITAW KA
NA... wag mong hayaan maging bato ang puso mo para lang sa kanya.
Walang ibang dapat gawin ang babae kundi maniwala sa mga pangako at magtiwala. At kung mahal talaga sya ng lalaki, magiging masaya ito na paglabanan ang mga tukso.
“Ang pagmamahal.. Wala sa edad..
Wala kang magagawa kung naramdaman na niya yun..


Hindi niya kasalanan yun..

Isa itong emosyon na hindi mapipigilan..”
“Huwag mong bilangin ang mga bagay na sa tingin mo na nagawa mo para sa isang tao. Kundi, bilangin mo ang dami ng beses sa naramdaman mong kaligayahan dahil napapasaya mo sila.”
Kapag hindi mo na alam ang tama at mali, and all you want to do is to just take care of him/her. Then you are inlove.
UMIIYAK KA KASE..
Nagmahal ka ng tama.
Hindi na uso ang 'BREAK IT TO ME GENTLY'.
Kung ayaw na, edi wag! Sabihin mo lang, hindi yung para kang gago at para siyang tanga na inuunti-unti mong saktan.
“You are bound to choose only one option: Ang tanggapin sya. Kasi di ka rin naman magiging masaya kung mawawala sya.”
Masyadong malakas ang tukso kaya wag mo tong labanan, iwasan mo na lang
Cry a lot. But make sure you are crying for a reason. And that reason is, you are moving on. Because every ounce of tear you shed, is an added strength to you.
Ang ugali ng lalaki, kung kailan malapit ka ng makarecover, dun siya magpaparamdam. Doon pumapasok ang role ng babae, ang umasa.
Kung Ang Tao ay Manloloko, Kahit Palagi Mong Bantayan, Manloloko Prin Yan..

Pero Kung Bibigyan Mo Siya Ng Dahilan Para Irespeto KA.

Kahit Madaming Temtasyon..

IRERESPETO KA..
“Iba ang GUSTO sa may GINAGAWA„,
GUSTO mong maging KAYO pero wala ka namang GINAGAWA..


ay TANGA!!!”
May mga bagay na inumpisahan mong mali, pero papangatawanan mo hanggang sa maging tama. BUT ONLY FOR A WHILE.
We will never find the reason kung bakit tayo nagmamahal. the moment you find the reason, hindi kana magmamahal kasi you will be logical to reason out why you are in love.

Papa Jack's Words of Wisdom 2 (English)

Loving someone should feel a glimpse of heaven
IT'S NEVER A REQUIREMENT TO BE WITH SOMEONE.
THE BEST WAY TO HURT SOMEONE IS THROUGH HONESTY.
Loving someone is taking a risk
NOT BECAUSE YOU CAN..YOU WILL
You can’t hurt someone unless you really mean something to them.
The measure of a mature person is on how they move on and stand up after everything goes wrong.
There’s no need to rush to get there. You are where you are supposed to be. Just breathe.
The worst thing is loving someone when you know you shouldn’t anymore.
GUYS ARE PHOTOGRAPHIC..GIRLS ARE VERBAL
LOVE IS LIKE DRIVING DOWN THE HILL

IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT,

ON FLAT TIRES,

LIGHTS BUSTED & BREAKS NOT WORKING.
Isn’t it amazing how you don’t see millions of people who accept you for you, yet you notice the one who doesn’t.
The best time in life was when we didn’t worry about love.
Being protective doesn't mean that you're SELFISH. Sometimes, it's just one way of letting people know that you're afraid to be LEFT AGAIN.
it's not wrong to give it all when you love.
it's not wrong to love a person so much. sometimes the only wrong thing
is the PERSON you love..
Sometimes there is no next time, no time outs, no second chances. Sometimes it’s now or never.

Papa Jack's Words of Wisdom 5 (Tagalog)

Natural lang na magpakatanga tayo sa taong minamahal natin, pero kung nawawala na ang identity mo, tigilan mo na yan. Irespeto mo naman ang sarili mo.
Walang masama kung kung ipaglalaban mo siya, Pero kailangan mong malaman kung hanggang kailan at hanggang saan
KAPAG MAY GINAWA KANG MALI..WAG MO NANG PANATILIHIN PANG MALI.. GAWIN MO NG TAMA.
Pag Hindi mo Inamin sa Sarili mo na Masakit, Hindi rin Gagawa Yung Puso mo ng Paraan para Maghilom. Hindi niya alam na masakit eh
Ang tao, aminado naman yan sa mga kasalanan nila..pero kung lalo mo pang ipapamukha sa kanila na mali sila, lalo mo lang silang binibigyan ng dahilan para iwanan ka..
Pano ka aalagan ng taong nagmamahal sayo, kung sobra mong pinapakitang kaya mo ang sarili mo
Ipakita mo sa partner mo ang mga weakpoints mo, para maiwasan niya ang mga bagay na pwedeng makapanakit sayo.
Kung mas pinaiiral mo ang pride at galit, mas umiikli ang life span ng isang relasyon.
Kung ang tao ay manloloko, kahit palagi mong bantayan, manloloko parin yan. Pero kung bibigyan mo siya ng dahilan para irespeto ka, kahit pa madaming temptasyon, IRERESPETO KA NIYA.
THIRD PARTY

Minsan, Nakakatulong din yung mga Third Party para ma realize mo kung tama ba yung taong minahal mo.

Kasi nung wala pa yung mga third party, Nagtitiis ka. Pero nang dumating sya, Unti unti mong nakikita yung mga mali sa partner mo. Isang factor din yun na naghahanap ka lang ng dahilan para sabihing hindi mo kasalanan na nagkaroon ka ng iba pero totoo naman eh.
Walang masama kung ipaglaban mo siya, pero kailangan mong malaman kung hanggang kailan at hanggang saan. Alamin mo kung may patutunguhan ang pakikipaglaban mo sa relasyon niyo.
"KUNG FEELING MO NAGMAMAHAL KA AT MAHAL KA DIN NIYA,
AT KUNG KATABI MO SIYA..TINGNAN MO SIYA SA KANYANG MGA MATA AT SABIHIN MONG MAHAL MO SIYA."
"NOT EVERY GOOD THINGS IN LIFE WILL REMAIN FOREVER..WE HAVE TO SAY GOODBYE AT A CERTAIN GOOD THINGS SA BUHAY NATIN..AT SANA PAG NAWALA ANG MGA GOOD THINGS SA BUHAY NATIN NA YAN, YOU STILL HAVE THE POWER & GUTS PARA MAKITA WHAT WAS GOOD IN IT."
"MINSAN KC PAG UMIIYAK TAYO, KALA NATIN KATAPUSAN NA NG MUNDO..HINDI MO ALAM THERE IS SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT"
"KASI HANGGAT HINDI MO NAGAGAWANG MAGALIT SA KANYA KAHIT PAPANO MANANATILI KANG TANGA..ISA SA PINAKAMAHIRAP NA GAGAWIN NG ISANG TAO AT NG ISANG NAGMAMAHAL."
YUN SANAYIN YUNG SARILI NA NASASAKTAN NA LAMANG..WHEN YOU GET YOU USED THE PAIN, BECAUSE YOU WILL NEVER EVER WANT TO BE A BETTER PERSON AT SANAY KA NA DUN."
"KAHIT KAILAN HINDI MAGANDANG MAGTANIM NG GALIT SA KAPWA, BUT AT SOME POINT LOOKING AT A BRIGHTER SIDE..YUNG GALIT MINSAN AY MOTIVATION PARA MAG MOVE ON."
"KASI HANGGAT HINDI MO NAGAGAWANG MAGALIT SA KANYA KAHIT PAPANO MANANATILI KANG TANGA..ISA SA PINAKAMAHIRAP NA GAGAWIN NG ISANG TAO AT NG ISANG NAGMAMAHAL."
“Alam naman natin na every time we cry, we get stronger.”
Sa problema hindi na mahalaga kung sinong tama o mali. Ang mahalaga kung sinong kayang umayos nito.
“Pano mag-move on? Kanya-kanya tayo diyan, hindi yan natuturo. Pero may shortcut para diyan. Umiyak ka. Umiyak ka ng umiyak hanggat gusto mo, hanggat hindi mo na maramdaman ang sakit. Hanggang sa dumating ang araw na paggising mo, parang wala na lang sayo dahil nasanay ka na sa sakit na naramdaman mo.”
Sa isang relasyon, madaling sabihin ng iba na, "Marami namang iba diyan, bakit siya pa?". Always remember that YOU CAN NEVER UNLEARN SOMETHING WHAT YOU HAVE ALREADY LEARNED.
Pag ang girl umiyak maaring masakit lang ang puson niya pero kapag ang lalaki umiyak there must be a reason

Tagos Hanggang Buto :))

hindi siya yung mundo mo, naging bahagi lang siya ng malaking mundo mo.
ALAM MO PAG MERON KANG MAHAL SA BUHAY, DAPAT WAG KANG MAGPAPALAMPAS NG KAHIT NA ISANG ARAW NA HINDI NIYA MALALAMAN NA IMPORTANTE SIYA SA BUHAY MO..WAG KA MAGPAPALAMPAS NG KAHIT ISANG ARAW NA MALAMAN NIYANG..KUNG GAANO KALAKI YUNG BAHAGI NYA SA PUSO MO
Hindi porket chickboy ka, gwapo ka na. Mas gwapo pa din yung lalaking marunong makuntento sa isa
Natatandaan mo dati…umiiyak ako… Sabi mo “tama na! nandito lang ako…” tapos ngayon umiiyak pa rin ako..pero ang sinabi mo…”tama na,makakalimutan mo rin ako"
Kung mahal mo ang isang tao, Ipakita mo sa kanya.
Hindi yung para kang nag-upload ng picture sa facebook. Tapos ipa-private mo lang
NAG UUSAP SI TWO TIMER AT STICK-TO-ONE-

TWO TIMER : KAWAWA KA NAMAN PRE !

STICK TO-ONE : BAKIT?

TWO TIMER : KASI ISA LANG GF MO, AKO DALAWA !

STICK TO-ONE : (NAPANGITI)
IKAW NGA ANG KAWAWA PRE KASI KAILANGAN MO PA NG ISA PARA MARAMDAMAN MONG MAY NAGMAMAHAL SAYO ! SAMANTALANG AKO HETO'T KUNTENTO AT NABUBUSOG SA PAGMAMAHAL NG TAONG MAHAL KO !
Hinde naman dapat patagalin ang panliligaw, ang relasyon ang dapat pinatatagal
“Totoo naman talagang mas maraming LALAKING manloloko…
.
.
Pero ang NAKAKALOKO
.
.
May PUMAPATOL
.
.
Kahit alam ng
.
.
MANLOLOKO"
Walang babaeng mawawala sa lalaking nag-aalaga ng TAMA. Wala din namang lalakeng magsasawa sa babaeng walang sawang UMUNAWA
malalaman mong gumagaling na ang sugat kpag kumakati na ito.

kaya kung heartbroken ka..
malalaman mong gumagaling kna kpag kumakati ka na..
Kung mahal ka talaga ng taong mahal mo, matututo syang umiwas sa lahat ng mga bagay na magiging dahilan ng paghihinala mo… It’s really hard to make a relationship work with a crack on its foundation.
Kapag hindi mo na alam ang tama at mali, and all you want to do is to just take care of him/her, then you are inlove

Pseudo Relationship: Better?

PSEUDO RELATIONSHIP

She is a 28-year-old virgin. He's a 35-year- old bachelor. Both mountaineers, they became close during their climbs. After a few dates in posh restaurants,
He brings her to his condo where they would make
out. They have been doing this for months.
She wants to believe that "sila na" but then she's
not really sure about it. "We don't talk about it but it doesn't really matter,"
she'd tell her friends. "What's important is I am enjoying this -- whatever
it is."

She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect. They met and became lovers in college.
They broke up last year but remained to be "friends."
They send sweet text messages and he calls her
often to make sure she's okay. They still date.
They still have sex. They don't see anyone else.
It is obvious that they still love each other but when
asked about their situation,
she doesn't know the real score.
Even her friends are in the dark. "Parang sila, pero
hindi."

She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the
board. They are in the same barkada. They talk on the
phone till 4 am. He gives her chocolates, flowers and CDs even
when there is no occasion. Their friends are suspecting something.
Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may overnight inuman?
Why does he hold her close on the dance floor?
Bakit sila magkaholding hands lagi? Sila kaya?
"He hasn't admitted anything," she rants.
"But I let him hug and kiss me. Parang kami, pero
hindi."

They work together in an ad agency. After office,
they would watch movie, have dinner and stroll at
Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter books for his birthday in
exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an ex jealous.
They made out during the company outing in Subic
and never talked about it. He said "I love you" once but she wasn't sure if
she heard him correctly because they were both drunk
then. But one thing she is sure of is her feelings for him.
She likes him. And she's assuming that with
what he's doing to her and with her, he likes her,
too. There's just one hitch: he has a girlfriend!

The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage. Others call it
MU or mutual understanding. Pseudo-
relationships. Pseudo-boyfriends. Flings. Almost like a
relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where the persons involved are more
than friends, but not quite lovers. Puwedeng may verbal
agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of you may have admitted your
feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your gestures do the talking for you.
Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari.
Hindi kayo mag-dyowa. Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga
sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi.

This kind of "relationship" can happen at different
stages for different reasons.
It can happen after a break-up. You still love each
other, and you want to be with each other but you broke
up for a reason. And for reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo
na muna magkabalikan.

It can also happen before a relationship, iyong
pareho kayong nakikiramdam. Possible din na
ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya kunwa-
kunwarian lang muna. Testing lang. Puwede ring hindi
puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo --usually
the guy --may ka-relasyon na.
Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon
sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya
ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi
siya nangagaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo."

This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be
fun. Lalo na kung naghahanap ka lang naman
ng "kalaro." Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may
patutunguhan kayo kasi wala talagang kasiguraduhan.
So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set
up ganoong hindi naman sigurado kung may
patutunguhan?
Iba't ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang.
Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa wala" or puwede na
iyang "pantawid-gutom."
Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing,
doon muna sa kunwa-kunwarian.
For those who are not in a serious relationship,
they would think that pseudo-relationship is better
than no relationship at all.
It would be fun, if all you are after for is that "kilig"
feeling.
Aminado naman ako na once upon a time,
may mga pseudo-relationships din ako. No
commitments involved.
For the simplest reason that they couldn't commit,
because they were either committed to someone
else, or that they weren't ready to commit.
My rationalization, "okay na iyun, kesa wala." Ang
habol ko lang naman,
iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong kung
kumusta araw ko.
Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing.
Iyong kapag tumunog ang cellphone,
mapapangiti na ako dahil alam kong galing sa
kanya ang message.
Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang
the real thing,
puwede na itong pagtiyagaan.

But then I learned that although it was only a
pseudo-relationship,
the emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of
set up,
ang babae lagi ang lugi. Una, you can't ask him to
commit.
Since it's not really a relationship,
you can't demand commitment from your partner.
Ano ba kayo?
May K ka nga ba magpasundo ng hatinggabi?
You will always be uncertain about your role in his
life.
You can't expect him to be always there with you.
And if you feel jealous of the other girls, you just
have to keep it to yourself.
Ano ka ba niya para magselos?

Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him?
You can't be sure if he feels the same way.
Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na mahal ka rin niya.
Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you
can't.
Because you're not sure if he'll like it. Baka
mapahiya ka lang.
This stage will always make you wonder where
you are in the relationship.
Or if there is a relationship at all.

Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much?
What if you have invested all your emotions and
this man hasn't?
What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining
other guys,
only to find out that he is seeing other girls?
Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is
fleeting.
When a disagreement sets in, or when one of you
gets cold,
then that would be the end of it.
Unlike in a serious relationship,
hindi mo alam kung saan ka lulugar sa isang
pseudo-relationship.
Wala kang pinanghahawakan. Kasi sa pseudo-
relationship,
there is no "us." Meron lang "you and me,"
hindi "us." Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang
ang mararanasan mo.
Kaso, hindi eh. Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos
na ang pseudo-relationship,
hindi mo maiwasan umasang one day, may
karugtong pa rin iyun.
And you will be miserable, hoping to bring back
what you used to have,
only to find out eventually that the guy is in another
pseudo-relationship with somebody else. Ang
hirap, ano?

You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then
you'd end up hurting yourself in the process. Pero
puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh.
Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future
and just enjoy the feeling, without thinking of the
consequences.
But if you are certain that you are going to hurt
yourself in the process,
kailangan mo mamili.

You can be happy and live the moment without
worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop
settling with pseudo-relationships and wait for the
real thing.

When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship
with an unavailable guy,
a friend told me, "Sige, kung ayaw mong
magpapigil, bahala ka.
Magpakasaya ka. Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak
pagkatapos,
dahil tatadyakan kita."

Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya
sa iyo, gawin mo.
Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence.
Dahil ang "parang kayo pero hindi" stage ay
bihirang nagiging totoo.
Usually, hanggang
doon lang siya... almost, but not quite.

-iceman

Breaking Up

How was I to know my kiss goodnight was really a kiss goodbye?
"Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars."
While I was holding on all you did was let go. The loss of love is a terrible thing. They lie who say that death is worse.
"You can't make something feel right when you know that it's wrong."
The day you finally decide to love me will be the day after the day I have given up on chasing you
You want me to act like we've never kissed, you want to forget; pretend we've never met , and I've tried and I've tried, but I haven't yet... You walk by, and I fall to pieces.
"What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you."
I'm going to turn and walk away. You wait until I am far along, then run and come and catch my arm and say you'd die if I were gone. Yes, I'm going to turn and walk away, you can watch me go or you can make me stay.
My heart was taken by you... broken by you... and now it is in pieces because of you.

Friends Forever

It's so hard to forget someone you'll always remember.
If I could share my ear phones with you. I would play your favorite song over and over again. Maybe then it'll make you stay.
To find a friend one must close one eye; To keep him, two.
No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.
The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed. Perhaps it should be added that either the man or the woman thus deeply bound in lifelong friendship who seeks marriage must find a still rarer man or woman to wed, to make such a three cornered comradeship a permanent success.
Don't ask of your friends what you yourself can do.
The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?
It takes years to develop trust and just seconds to destroy it.
When you realize that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible
People can just be friends, but at one point or another one of them will fall for the other, maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe,just maybe, forever

It Hurts...

You never know what you have until you lose it, and once you lose it, you can never get it back.

Sometime you just have to hold your head up high, blink away the tears and say good-bye.
You always say you hate to see me hurt, and you hate to see me cry. So all those times that you hurt me, did you close your eyes?
So... from now on... when you think of me... just remember that I could've been the best thing you ever had.
Why is it that no matter how much pain it endures by holding on,the heart refuses to let go.
And after all the heartbreaks, and the fights, and the tears, and the anger, true love will be waiting for you at the end... and it will be worth it.
You will never know true happiness until you have truly loved, and you will never understand what pain really is until you have lost it.
Hold my hand, just one more time, so I can remind myself why it is that I can't get over you.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
I cried when I knew I lost you, afraid I had lost it all. Then I realized that losing you, didn't have to mean I lost me.
While I was holding on all you did was let go.
I guess I thought you'd be here forever, another illusion I chose to create, but you don't know what you've got until it's gone and I found that out a little too late
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you
I cried when I knew I lost you, afraid I had lost it all. Then I realized that losing you, didn't have to mean I lost me.

Letting Go

Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go. We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so."

Sometimes the cards we are dealt are not always fair. However you must keep smiling & moving on.
To be able to move on, one has to learn to forgive not only the person (or people) who have done one wrong but also oneself.
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
Forgiveness and letting go are steps on our road back to happiness.
Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one.
f someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.
Letting go isn't about giving up. It's about accepting that there are things that cannot be.
You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on.

It's Time to Move On Dear

“We can never turn back the pages of time, though we may wish to relive a happy moment, or say goodbye just one last time, we never can, because the sands of time continue to fall, and we can’t turn the hourglass over.”

"Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult. Yet strength is measured not by holding on, but by letting go."
“There’s no need to miss someone from your past- There’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future”
“Every exit is an entry somewhere.”
“True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.”
“There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.”
"You are responsible for your life. You can't keep blaming somebody else for your dysfunction. Life is really about moving on."
"Loving someone is setting them free, letting them go."
"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go."
“We need in love to practice only this: letting each other go. For holding on comes easily–we do not need to learn it.”
“Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.”
“Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard.”
“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”
“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us.”
STEPS FOR MOVING ON:
*SAY THANK YOU
*I'M SORRY &
*GOODBYE

Love Radio: True Love Confession and Wild Confessions

"kung talagang mahal ka ng isang tao HINDI ka nya sasaktan at kung sakaling saktan ka man nya
makikita mo sa mga mata nyang nasasaktan din sya"
‎"love is like a song."

sabi nga nila,

"kung hindi mo rin lang kayang kantahin ang isang kanta.
hayaan mo nalang ito at pakinggan habang kinakanta ng iba."

kung baga sa pag ibig.

"kung talagang mahal mo siya.pero hindi tlaga kayo para sa isat-isa.
hayaan mo nlng siyang maging masya sa piling ng taong mahal nya."

love is sacrifice.
love is selfless.

"but never get tired and never stop loving."
‎"hindi ibibigay ng diyos ang taong gusto mo,.
kasi ang ibibigay nya ay ung taong kailangan mo"
‎"starting all over again is not that bad..for when you restart, you get another chance to make things right."
“Hindi lahat ng taong mamahalin at magiging parte ng buhay mo ay mananatiling andyan para sa’yo. Minsan maiisip nalang nila bigla na hindi ka na nila kailangan at iiwan ka nalang basta basta kahit gaano man kalalim ang pinagsamahan niyo”
wala namang nagsabing madaling mag-move on. ang importante, hindi mo niloko sarili mo na okay ka na kahit hindi pa.. time can only heal a broken heart. if you want to move on, do not rush yourself. let the tears fall until you're okay again. there's nothing wrong with crying.."
"Stoping your heart to loving again, does not heal your past."
"Pag dumating yung panahon na mas marami ng pain, mas marami ng questions kesa sa answers, dun ka bumitaw"

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I'm Louie Anne Angulo (a.k.a. LADY CRUCIAL) and this is my spot, my blog... This blog is a compilation of all quotes, sayings and lines that may inspire you and motivate you especially when it comes to love.... This also contains all my stuffs.... SITE UNDER CONSTRUCTION!!!